Coaching
How to Respond to “We’re Interviewing Other Agents”
By Khai Tran · · 7 min read
When a seller is meeting other agents, ask what they want to compare and explain your proposed work. Practice a response that respects their decision.
Give the Seller Room to Compare
A seller who is interviewing other agents is deciding who they want to work with. Ask what matters to them, explain your proposed services and answer the questions they bring up. You do not need to treat the decision as a test of your personality.
The scripts below are examples. Read them aloud, change the wording to fit your voice and use only statements that describe how you actually work.
Script #1:## Script #1: The Calm Professional (Most Versatile)
Use this when the conversation is early or neutral.
Script:
“That makes complete sense. Most sellers I work with want to be thorough. What I’ve found is that the right fit usually becomes clear once you understand how each agent thinks about pricing, strategy, and communication, not just marketing promises.”
Why this works:
- You don’t resist their statement
- You don’t compete
- You subtly elevate the decision criteria
Script #2: The Confident Guide (When You Want to Lead)
Use this when you feel good rapport and want to set standards.
Script:
“I’d actually expect you to interview other agents, it’s an important decision. What I’ll do today is walk you through exactly how I’d handle your sale so you can decide if my approach aligns with how you want to be represented.”
Why this works:
- You validate their logic
- You position yourself as the process
- You take control without pressure
Script #3: The Reframe (When Sellers Sound Noncommittal)
Use this when sellers feel distracted or indecisive.
Script:
“Totally fair. One thing I’d encourage you to pay attention to is not just who sounds the most confident, but who asks the best questions about your goals and timeline. That usually tells you who’s actually thinking like an advisor.”
Why this works:
- You slow the conversation down
- You shift focus from competition to competence
- You differentiate without comparison
Script #4: The Introvert-Friendly Soft Close
This is one I personally teach introverted agents because it’s natural, not salesy.
Script:
“You don’t need to decide anything today. My goal is just to give you clarity. If, after speaking with others, you feel my approach fits best, I’d be happy to move forward. If not, that’s okay too.”
Why this works:
- Removes pressure
- Builds trust
- Leaves the decision with the seller
Try It in a Roleplay
Ask a colleague to play a seller who is comparing several agents. Practice acknowledging the decision, asking what they want to compare and explaining your proposed work without criticizing the other agents.
How to Practice This So It Sounds Natural
Don’t memorize. Internalize.
Here’s how I recommend practicing:
- Read the scripts out loud
- Record yourself once
- Adjust wording to match your voice
- Practice slowing down, not saying more
Confidence shows up in pace, not volume.
After the Conversation
Send a short recap of the work you proposed and answer any remaining questions. Ask whether the seller wants a follow-up and respect the timing they choose.
Ready-to-Use Scripts (Free)
If you want more discovery call and DM scripts designed specifically for introverted agents:
👉 Download my free Introvert Discovery & DM Scripts Pack → /introvert-scripts